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HALFWAY TO OLD

July 14, 2014

When each of my kids turns nine years old, I always say the same thing. “Happy 9th Birthday! Hey, do you realize that half your childhood is over?”

Then I get the same questioning look. “Huh? What do you mean?”

And I explain, ”Well, you’re an adult once you reach the age of 18.  And you are nine years old today.  Half of 18 is nine.  So, half of your childhood is over.”  And then I wait for a reaction.

All but one of my kids smiled when I told them that.   I’ve even had a few who got excited and said, “Cool!” because to them, being 18 and an “adult” is something to look forward to.

But not my Alex.  He looked at me with an expression on his face that said, “OH MY GOD what are you saying?!!!”  Then he started crying.  Yes, crying. So I did my best to cheer him up, but you can’t unsay what you said, so his mind was already going with the idea and there was no stopping it.  He just kept saying, “But I don’t want my childhood to be over!”  

Poor kid.  I traumatized him on his birthday.  Bad Mommy.

But that was a few years ago. Today, at age 14, he’s doing much better with it. Puberty has kicked in, he’s looking forward to getting his driver’s license and shaving, and all is well with this thing called growing up.

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But I have to tell you that today — on my 45th Birthday — I’m feeling a little something similar to what Alex felt.  Because here I am at an age that when you double it you get the number 90.

Ninety!!

You guys, I’m halfway to ninety!!  That means half of my youth is over.  Damn.  That was quick.  In just five more years I will be fifty. 

But fifty doesn’t bother me. 

And sixty doesn’t scare me, either.  My own mother is in her 60’s and seeing how youthful and active and attractive she still is, how can sixty scare me?  It doesn’t.  In fact, my mother isn’t all that far away from seventy, so seventy doesn’t really scare me, either. 

Now I’ll admit that eighty is pushing it.  I see eighty as old, but doable.  I think eighty these days might be the new seventy.  People live well into their 80’s, and you see it more and more. 

But ninety?  Hmmm.  I don’t know about those 90’s.  When you reach your 90’s people start congratulating you as if you won a race or something.

“Ninety, huh?  Well, good for you!”

“You’re ninety?  Wow, that’s amazing!”

When people start calling you “amazing” just for reaching an age, then I feel you have officially arrived at old.

I can’t believe I am halfway to old. 

Well, whatever.  It is what it is.  Besides, this little guy of mine keeps me feeling young….

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…. until I remember that when he is my age, I will be pushing ninety.  Ninety!  Okay, now I feel old again.
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Happy Birthday to me, and all of you out there who share my birthday!!   July 14th ROCKS!!
 
And if you are turning ninety today…..well then, good for you!  You are amazing!

Filed Under: birthdays, My Random Thoughts 12 Comments

Comments

  1. KeraLinnea says

    July 19, 2014 at 7:03 pm

    Happy Birthday! Although I’m not the 14th, I am a July Baby, and we absolutely rock. July babies are the best!

    Reply
    • Katrina says

      July 19, 2014 at 10:46 pm

      Happy Birthday to YOU, too :)

      Reply
  2. Steph says

    July 18, 2014 at 9:43 pm

    Belated happy birthday! I remember I thought the same thing a couple years ago when I turned 45. I kept saying I was halfway to 90! and yes having a little one will keep you young:)

    Reply
    • Katrina says

      July 19, 2014 at 10:47 pm

      Thank you :) And I feel young, so that’s really what counts, right? Right!

      Reply
    • Steph says

      July 21, 2014 at 4:17 pm

      Right!! and thanks for saying 50 doesn’t bother you. I’m (gulp) turning that age soon and I can’t believe it.

      Reply
  3. Anonymous says

    July 16, 2014 at 10:49 pm

    Happy Birthday!!! Hope you had a great one. All of your children will keep you young, for many years to come!

    Sharon M.

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    • Katrina says

      July 19, 2014 at 10:47 pm

      Thank you!

      Reply
  4. Katrina says

    July 16, 2014 at 2:31 am

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  5. Anonymous says

    July 14, 2014 at 9:30 pm

    How’s the construction with the pool coming?

    Reply
    • Katrina says

      July 16, 2014 at 2:32 am

      Still waiting for the city permits to clear!

      Reply
  6. joeh says

    July 14, 2014 at 2:26 pm

    Happy birthday, and yes, that little guy will keep you young for a while…you have no choice.

    Reply
    • Katrina says

      July 16, 2014 at 2:33 am

      So true. I chase him around so much, there’s no time for growing old!

      Reply

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